All thinking all the people understand that every form of outer communication,
including writing, speaking and body language, is crucially
important.

However, this issue deals with a topic far more important.
It is about a little known secret. You cannot be a
successful communicator without this skill. Once understood,
it may propel you to an unprecedented level of happiness and
success.

As we think in words, the real key to success and happiness
lies within the words you choose for your "self talk."

The implications of this personal dialogue are enormous.

Why?

You are the master--the author--of every single thought,
giving you absolute control over your emotional state.

Imagine for a moment how the power and control you would
have in life if you could actually fool your subconscious
at any measure into the feeling you most target ! This discovery
changed my life. And, if you take it to heart, it will also
change yours.

Once you master the art of positive self talk it will
no longer be important what happens to you in life. What
counts far more are the words you choose to frame the
event in your mind.

Most self talk is extremely negative. Indeed, its rare
to find a human who is positive most of the time, as I am
sure youll agree.

The impact of this negative self talk will, of course,
severely hamper or sabotage what you achieve in the business
world.

A typical sales communication that I create, such as an ad or
sales letter, usually contains at least 1,000 words. Contrast
this with the number of words which go through our minds
during our inner dialogue.

The experts tell us each and every moment the typical human
being uses approximately 1,000 words in their self talk.
Imagine what this may do to your emotional state if the
majority of the words and thoughts are negative.

Certain words can quickly catapult you from poverty to great
wealth. Well-chosen words might persuade, lead, impress or attract
everybody. However, other words can turn many people off, sometimes
forever.

Ive been thinking recently of examples of what words might
actually do in and to your life.

Here is a short list of them.

Depending on the words you choose, you may:

* Criticize or support your mate
* Discourage or inspire a child
* Be invisible to others or have others eager to talk
with you
* Pass judgment or accept a friend
* Take for granted or recognize a valued employee
* Feel the depths of despair or unlimited joy
* Facilitate loneliness or passionate romantic love
* Appeal to ones intellect or touch someones heart
* Make an enemy or a friend
* Feel blue or joyous on a rainy day
* Quit trying or never give up on motivating yourself to
greatness
* Accept someones erroneous judgment or ask for their love
and support
* See yourself as a hopeless failure or an outstanding success
* Dream small or dream big and achieve either one you choose
* Live in poverty or grab anything you want in life
* Feel constantly tired or full of energy
* View yourself as a weak, unattractive human or as a handsome
or beautiful, healthy human being, and be definately right
either way
* Picture yourself helpless and defeated or as a successful
entrepreneur that cannot be denied
* Persuade others to go to war or march for peace

In this article and in my books, tapes and live seminars,
I will do all I might to provide you the actual Magic Words and
phrases you need to knowledge positive results.

Think of these Magic Words as a new language of success.
They are not theory. They have been tested and proven all around
the world. Use them consistently and you are virtually assured
youll get what you want nearly all the instant.

You have an unlimited future. Choose the words you use, especially
with yourself, carefully and wisely.

Remember, its not as important what happens to you as the words
you utilize to describe events to yourself. You could be in a mansion
or even confined in a prison and still be happy. You might
remember this poem: Two men looked through prison bars.
One viewed the night and one saw the stars